In our exploration of this subject, we also discovered that such concerns are not only the domain of young Mosaics and Busters. One fifth of all American adults (21 percent) believe "the political efforts of conservative Christians" are a major problem facing the country today. Half of the adult population (48 percent) describes the political involvement of Christians as a concern.

Here's the tension, the balance, the main question, especially for folks who read our e-mail. Obviously, there are issues we as Christians need to fight for: one-man, one-woman marriage; the sanctity of life, etc. etc. God's design on these issues is clear, but can we do it without falling into these stereotypes? Because you're not advocating in the least that we back off biblical stances on issues.

Even though the Gospel may not be popular to everyone, it does not give us the excuse to be offensive in that process. We don't have to be a jerk in order to stand for righteousness.

We need to be willing to have very frank and open conversations with people who are not Christians. And while we want to hold fast to biblical truths, we need to learn from people about why they've come to the conclusions that they've come to. So that even if we disagree with them, we haven't simply come to them trying to convince them of our views. We may have a time and a place for that, but my take from the data is that we're far too often in the position of trying to convince everybody we're right than trying to understand why people might disagree with us — particularly people who are not Christians.

We have to ask ourselves, How do I go about these conversations with my neighbors? Am I feisty? Am I polarizing? Am I an "expert"? Am I arrogant about it? Or do I have an attitude like Jesus did, which was not willing to compromise, but willing to have conversations with people and willing to learn, and willing in many ways to point to deep matters of the heart that reflect what people are really after.

Not that we are, again, submitting our biblical ideals to a popular vote, but we're asking the Holy Spirit to give us insights into how to apply these crucial biblical truths to a very changing and dynamic culture. Jesus Himself said that He was here to do good to the world; He was here not to condemn the world but to save it. So when we're known as all of these things in sort of a negative light, rather than being relational, compassionate, willing to learn, informed, oriented around solutions to complex problems, those are the postures, those are the activities, the behaviors, the attitudes that Jesus cultivated.

This generation is not after simplistic formulas, moral formulas. They're after a deep, livable worldview that helps them make sense of the world, that helps them be a better person, that helps them do good to their neighbors. And the Gospel has every element of that. It is Good News to the prisoner. It is Good News to the blind. And that is key for us to capture in our hearts and minds.