Teach Small-Group Members to Pray
by Tom Goodman
August 13, 2009
If you lead adults in Sunday School or Common Ground, how's the depth of your group's prayer life? Rick Howerton wrote a worthy article on
how to teach adults to pray for each other:
Teach Small-Group Members to Pray
by Rick Howerton
Teaching adult followers of Jesus to pray out loud is essential. Jesus taught the disciples to pray. Shouldn't we do the same?
An unforgettable ministry conversation took place one day after our Sunday gathering of Christ-followers. One of our small-group leaders at our church was telling me about the growth he was seeing in his group members. I was already on the edge of my
seat, but when he told me one person prayed aloud for the very first time the week prior my heart started dancing!
And as I drove home later, my eyes welled with tears. You see, the "first-time out-louder" has a fantastic wife and two incredible sons. I realized these young boys would grow up in a home where Dad prayed audibly for them. And those kids will do
with their own children what they have seen their dad do. Because a small-group leader took the time to teach others to pray aloud, untold believers for generations to come will know what it means to have godly, caring parents praying for them. As
that happens, those children will understand God is real and alive, and they will want to know about His Son Jesus and will most likely choose a relationship with Him.
Teaching other adult believers to pray is a step-by-step process. Here's how to model this essential spiritual discipline.
Level One. As the group leader, model conversational prayer. The term "conversational" is important. Exhibiting a preacher voice, speaking in old English terms, or sounding as though you've swallowed a pile of "O pity me's" will confuse the
small-group member who longs to have an authentic relationship with Jesus.
Level Two. A couple of weeks later ask for volunteers to pray and watch who emerges.
Level Three. Call on two people who have been consistently volunteering to pray before or during your meeting. Close your time together with a prayer of your own.
Level Four. Lead your group to "complete the sentence." Prompt others to pray with such words as, "God, this is ." "I want to thank you for ." "God, would you help with ." Let everyone know that if they prefer to pray
silently to God instead of out loud, they should let the group know by squeezing the hand of the person next to them -- if the group is that close -- or say "Amen" to indicate they are going to pray silently.
Level Five. Your group members grow to the point that they can pray conversationally together using this method: One person shares a prayer request, and then the group spends time praying "sentence prayers" about that specific request. Others
share additional requests until your prayer time is complete.
These are baby steps moving toward full-fledged paragraph prayers. In time, this will come naturally.
As we gather for Bible study and fellowship each Sunday, let's make sure we're teaching adults how to lift up each other in prayer.
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